Monday, July 27, 2009

The Latest

Not much has been going on in Santa Cruz of late.

We ordered some impressive-looking (and tasting) sushi last week.



And Kuipo the rabbit was on the loose again.

On the Couch

Eying the tasty Remotes

Sitting on Lisa so she has to focus on the rabbit. Kuipo likes to take flying leaps toward your head if you’re seated on the couch. She will then usually settle in to sit on you to be petted, although she used to chew on the hair of a friend of ours, so you have to keep an eye on her.

Monday, July 20, 2009

Progress Report


Steve recently received his acceptance letter to the graduate program at Cal State Long Beach. While it’s an option we are definitely considering, we want to wait and see what the results are of Steve’s boss’s attempt to get him into UC Santa Cruz. This decision should be rendered sometime around the end of 2009 (he would start school in January 2010 if it happens). Since he was accepted to CSULB, it is our understanding that Steve should be able to re-apply without re-submitting all of his paperwork to CSULB for fall of 2010 should the UCSC option not work out.

We are very torn about the whole thing. We miss our family and friends in Southern California, but right now we have excellent jobs in Santa Cruz and a lot of independence. Not to mention, should Steve even give up his income to do grad school at all? It’s scary to think about any of the options. We look back at our lives and all the decisions that have lead us to this point; how do you know which path to choose? (by the way, that’s a hypothetical question, not an invitation for people to lobby for us to end up in one place or the other)

So, in closing, we don’t know what we’re doing any more than we did last month. We’re not likely to make any decision in this matter until we find out if Steve can get into UC Santa Cruz. So we’ll update this situation later this year.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

The Art of Avoiding People

Steve loves movies. In theory, so do I. However, I have grown to really detest the movie theater experience. The people talking to each other and on their cell phones during the show, the crowded rows of sweaty patrons reeking of fake butter, the coughing and sneezing and crinkling of wrappers… the whole thing is an exercise in annoyance and disgust for me. For quite awhile, Steve attended movies alone or with other friends because I detested the experience so much. But we have found the solution.

Now whenever a movie comes out that we want to see, we attend the earliest morning show on the Sunday after it is released. No matter how popular the movie, these shows are always deserted. For the newest Harry Potter movie (whose first showing was 9 am this morning) there were only about ten people in the theater with us. It was quiet and spacious and absolutely wonderful.

We both really enjoyed the newest Potter offering. I have never read any of the books (nor do I plan to, so don’t bother trying to convince me… it’s been done) and Steve decided that he preferred reading the book after seeing the movie since rather then focusing on what the movie left out, you can focus on enjoying greater expansion of the story you just saw. So we can’t comment on how good it was compared to the book, but we had a good time.

Now, instead of working to convince me to go with him to see any movie, Steve just has to work on convincing me to see bad movies (his current persuading project: Transformers 2... good luck with that one. I saw Transformers 1 and I swear it killed a good chunk of my remaining brain cells).

Friday, July 17, 2009

2,476 Miles Later… The Great Arizona Adventure



Steve and I returned last Sunday from a 12-day trip which included four full days and two traveling days of time to go out to the Baldwin (Steve’s mother’s side) family reunion in Taylor, Arizona. My mother-in-law made it clear that it was important to her that all of her children’s families make it out to this event… so, off we went.

Anyone who has spent anytime around me in the past few months has heard me whine about this trip. Spending nearly a week (including traveling to and from) in Arizona in July was not high on my list of desired vacations. And, yes, Taylor was not nearly as hot as it was in Phoenix… but you only have to get into the 80’s to be less pleasant than Santa Cruz.

In retrospect, I have to admit that I’m glad I went, if only because it’s interesting to see where people in your life (even in-laws ;-) come from. Steve, being more social than myself, certainly enjoyed spending time with his cousins. I have to be frank that I seriously doubt that I will allow myself to be talked into going again, but it was certainly a valuable experience to have… once.

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On our way…

Around dinner time on June 30th, Steve and I packed up all six of the bunnies in my Pontiac and drove down to my parents’ house in Lakewood. My parents had graciously agreed to watch the bunnies while we were in Arizona and we wanted to break up our formidable drive from Santa Cruz. But, before we got on our way, my parents were sure to put Steve to work. This time, he was pulling out their old spa deck to make way for brand new Trex decking.



Thanks to Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives (a show on the Food Network), Steve had all kinds of interesting ideas of where to stop and eat on the way to Arizona. We ended up stopping in Victorville, CA at Emma Jean’s Holland Burger CafĂ©. It was truly a dive. I don’t think the place was large enough for us to take a picture of the interior, so we took one out by their sign.



I have to say, though, the food was fantastic. I had a Hot Patty Melt, which turned out to essentially be grilled cheese with a burger patty, sauce and green chilies inside. It was amazing. We will definitely be going back if we pass through again.


Day 1



Day 1 in Taylor, Arizona began at 5 am. We hustled to get ready for one of the main events of this entire excursion: the Fourth of July Parade and Anvil Blowout (my name, not theirs).

It turns out that the parade actually began earlier than we had anticipated, so the Loveridge caravan (every one of Steve’s five sibling and their families were all in attendance) moved to intercept the parade at the local stake center (a Mormon church building, for the unfamiliar). The “parade” actually consisted of some fire trucks, a truck pulling a trailer covered with the local band, a truck that carried the anvil accoutrements and then everybody else in the town in their trucks and SUV’s.





Now, the aforementioned anvil blowout is certainly a unique tradition. Personally, I grew up afraid of balloons and fireworks because I hated loud noises, so it was not my favorite event in the world… but it was interesting.

They take an anvil and place it in the middle of the street. They then place newspaper and a container of black powder on top of the anvil. They then place a second anvil upside-down upon the first.



(Yes, his shirt says “got anvil?”)

Then they light the paper.



And, with a massive (and kind of painful) shock wave, the second anvil explodes into the air. I heard that it’s good luck if it crashed back down upon the first anvil, but I really wasn’t paying attention. After one explosion, I’d had enough.



I apologize that the picture is out of focus but, understandably, the shock wave kept Steve from holding the camera steady.

Once the parade was ready to move on from the stake center, some of the Loveridges hopped up on to a trailer towed by a cousin and rode to the end of the route.



After the completion of the parade, we were hosted by an aunt and uncle of Steve’s at their home in Taylor. We later had lunch at the rodeo grounds and visited the local cemetery. We then took the opportunity to relax that afternoon before heading over to the rodeo grounds that evening.

Not shockingly to anyone who knows me, rodeos are not my cup of tea. But the family was going, so off we went.

As it seemed to be very popular, they blew up the anvil a few more times.



We took a lot of pictures of the rodeo, but this is my favorite. Our camera was really not up to the task of the fast pace of the rodeo, but I think this one looked neat.



After a very impressive fireworks display, we settled into our hotel after an extremely long day.

Day 2



After family pictures in the morning (since this was the first time in quite awhile that the entire Loveridge family was together in one place… we’re in the upper right), Steve and I ventured from Taylor into the nearby area of Pinetop in search of souvenirs for me. We ended up with some coasters made to look like tiny rugs and a moccasin keychain (I have a keychain collection). They are pictured below with a rock that I picked up later in the trip from the campground.


We also picked up a piece of sandstone art that we really loved. It’s tiny (only about three inches across) but I just fell in love with it.



We then had a fantastic lunch at a local diner. I had the most amazing reuben… yum…

Anyway, later in the day, we were hosted by another uncle and aunt of Steve’s for an afternoon potluck. Afterward, we went to one of the local church buildings and saw a presentation from another uncle and aunt about their mission work in Asia (clean water projects, health care services, etc.).

Day 3 (morning & afternoon)

Since the campground (yes, we had to leave our lovely hotel to go and sleep on the ground without running water in the woods) wasn’t going to be ready until 2 pm, Steve and I decided to go to the Painted Desert/Petrified Forest. This was a highlight of the trip for me.



It was a bit windy.









Lots of petrified wood littered around. It’s a very strange landscape.



(thank you, Jessica, for taking the above picture – I love it!)









As fun as it was, I had finally had enough of the Petrified Forest (or, more accurately, the Arizona heat).

Although, I managed to have enough energy to visit the gift shop and pick up at petrified wood bookend.





Day 3 (evening) & Day 4

We had arrived at the campsite in the afternoon on day 3. Here’s a little taste of the surroundings:





Steve’s mother Carolyn has five brothers, four of which attended (with at least some of their families) the campout. They must have served at least 80 people at each meal. It was a mind-boggling amount of people for me to handle, and I admit that I did not always deal gracefully… but I did my best.

There was the usual campfires, singing, skits, crafts and even some expert kite flying by Steve. But the first night we were there, I observed an interesting phenomenon.

On day 3, after visiting the petrified forest, Steve and I had joined some of his siblings, nieces and nephews for a late Chinese food lunch (which was really quite good for being in the middle of the Arizona desert). We took our leftovers with us to camp, which was fortunate since they served dinner only about two hours after we had finished lunch. Not able to eat at the time, I brought out my Chinese leftovers at about 10 pm that night. At first, I was alone. But not for long.

The cold leftovers proved too tantalizing for some of Steve’s cousins to take. Somehow, they sensed their presence and made their way to the picnic area. Soon, a crowd had gathered around me and my cashew chicken. Noticing the ogling, Steve offered up his leftovers as did Steve’s brother Lee. And, presto, we had a midnight picnic. Containers were passed around, stories were told and quite a bit of teasing occurred. It was the most enjoyable interaction I had had with Steve’s extended family.

Day 5

On the road again… we had another diner experience in Flagstaff, AZ (which was also wonderful) and finally got back to my parents’ house in time for a late dinner.

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We spent some more time with my family and some of our friends in Southern California before finally returning home to Santa Cruz on July 12th. It was an absolutely exhausting trip, and I have to say I’m glad it’s over. But I’m also ultimately glad I went.